Is gender complementarity essential to Christian marriage?

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An oft-cited reason claimed by opponents of same-gender marriage is the concept of “gender complementarity — the idea that men and women are different from one another in essential ways, and that Christian love depends on the pairing of just those differences.” Duke University Professor Mary McClintock Fulkerson critiques this idea in her essay from the Covenant Network’s 2006 publication, Frequently Asked Questions about Sexuality, the Bible & the Church: Plain Talk About Tough Issues.

A Funny Thing Happened

Laura Cheifetz

Laura Mariko Cheifetz on her own marriage: “I had become so accustomed to keeping this relationship under wraps in certain segments of the church. And I learned that being public meant something not just to us, but to other people. Neither of us missed the irony that our marriage happened in full view of another church and another state, instead of our own…”

Why the Marriage Amendment Matters

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Tricia Dykers Koenig: Given that the GA’s authoritative interpretation of W-4.9000 affirms that ministers may use their discretion in officiating at marriages of same-gender couples, does it matter if the presbyteries approve the proposed Marriage Amendment, 14-F?

Why Marriage Matters Now: Thoughts as the Church Talks About Same-Sex Marriage

Brian Ellison

Brian Ellison reflects on what’s at stake in the approval of Amendment 14-F: fundamental Christian values, the quality and content of the Church’s mission, the lives of people.

Benton: a change of heart, a plea for forgiveness

The Rev. Marc Benton’s complaint against the Presbytery of Hudson River in 1999 led to a decision by the General Assembly Permanent Judicial Commission forming an important precedent in the development of the constitutional interpretation about marriage in the PC(USA). In a statement to be presented at the next meeting of the presbytery, Benton explains how he changed his mind about same-gender marriage, and asks forgiveness.

Why Marriage Matters

Southminster

Marriage matters to persons who are beloved members of our churches – and of the human family. Listen to Chris and Andy tell their story.